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May 5, 2010

Everything is about inclusion.

“When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” ~ Paulo Coelho


The basis of most physical human confusion, is this: Everything is about the law of attraction.

Which means, simply, everything is about ‘inclusion.’

I repeat: There is no such thing as ‘exclusion’… You can’t look at something and say no, no, I want that NOT… and have it go away.

Because your attention to it, causes you to vibrate WITH IT and by law of attraction, it then comes to you…

So when you say YES to something, it comes. When you say NO to something, it comes. There is no such thing as NO in this universe.

Get up. Everything is about inclusion.

And so, your work as a deliberate creator is to sift through the data and define or decipher or DECIDE or choose… those things you are WANTING TO INCLUDE in your experience.

(Source: Abraham Hicks, Ask and It Is Given, referred to me via Michelle Thedaker; the book tells us to make notes and post them where we’ll see them often…)




To which I add:

Be excellent.
Let everything else go.







  1. Cool. I’m constantly reminding myself that "No means yes!" Recently it occurred to me that successful deliberate creation is kind of like responding to Facebook friend requests: we can say "yes" or we can "ignore." There’s no such thing as "no." 😉

    Comment by Anonymous — May 7, 2010 @ 7:03 am

  2. Deborah, you got it!It’s amazing how many times I have to try to explain this rule to people, that there is no such thing as "no".I guess it’s just not an intuitive idea.

    Comment by Anonymous — June 23, 2010 @ 8:17 am

  3. "Everything comes to us that belongs to us if we create the capacity to receive it." ~Rabindranath Tagore

    Comment by Anonymous — June 30, 2010 @ 1:04 am

  4. "The more forcefully you try to suppress your thoughts about the behavior or object you desire, the more deeply you’ll gorge on it when you get the chance to do so.""Oh, and by the way, suppressing thoughts of something you want will make you feel lousy as well."Source:http://www.latimes.com/health/boostershots/la-heb-quitting-20100819,0,1629385.story

    Comment by Anonymous — August 20, 2010 @ 5:46 am

  5. Why are we magnetically drawn to people who have found meaning in their lives?See: http://www.miller-mccune.com/culture/the-magnetic-appeal-of-a-meaningful-life-21236

    Comment by Anonymous — September 7, 2010 @ 4:53 am

  6. It took me quite some time to finally understand that trying to push things away brings them closer.

    Comment by Matthew Edward — January 24, 2011 @ 4:46 pm

  7. Matthew, it took me a long time, too.Other unintuitive lessons in life:http://www.quora.com/What-life-lessons-are-unintuitive-or-go-against-common-sense-or-wisdom

    Comment by Anonymous — March 29, 2011 @ 2:15 pm

  8. I hated every minute of training, but I said, "Don’t quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion." ~ Muhammad Alihttp://www.facebook.com/adam.rifkin/posts/10150247730430415

    Comment by Anonymous — July 26, 2011 @ 7:01 pm

  9. "At the moment of commitment the entire universe conspires to assist you." #Goethe #quotehttp://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10150408245154762&id=601539761

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2011 @ 3:44 am

  10. All the lessons of history in four sentences: Whom the gods would destroy, they first make mad with power. The mills of God grind slowly, but they grind exceedingly small. The bee fertilizes the flower it robs. When it is dark enough, you can see the stars.~ Charles A. Beardhttp://www.facebook.com/adam.rifkin/posts/10150307180170415

    Comment by Anonymous — September 27, 2011 @ 3:45 pm

  11. When you try to exclude thoughts, these things happen: http://www.spring.org.uk/2011/10/8-ironic-effects-of-thought-suppression.php

    Comment by Anonymous — October 4, 2011 @ 3:29 am

  12. Every thought is a seed. If you plant crab apples, don’t count on harvesting Golden Delicious. ~Bill Meyerhttp://ifindkarma.tumblr.com/post/15317129237/every-thought-is-a-seed-if-you-plant-crab-apples

    Comment by Anonymous — January 10, 2012 @ 12:30 am

  13. The 12 Laws of Karma:http://pandawhale.com/convo/539/the-12-laws-of-karma

    Comment by Anonymous — March 10, 2012 @ 5:01 am

  14. What we think, we become, right? Social media is a perfect mirror to reflect how we show up in the world! You are what you post…..!!!http://pandawhale.com/convo/795/a-few-tidbits-about-happiness

    Comment by Anonymous — April 3, 2012 @ 7:51 pm

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